Frustrated with T

[The People]

Weeks ago I went for an interview with B&GC to do some volunteer work. As I was open about my own history and was in therapy (someone always lets things slip anyway) they wanted a general reference for our T.

We saw our T last week and we were supposed to go over it. She already had it for a few weeks. We ended up not doing so and she said it was just general anyway. I sent her an email days ago reminding her to send it in. When I haven't heard from the program I started waiting for a "sorry but..." letter.

Just got a cc email TODAY of the letter t had sent to program. She just sent in the reference now. If she was holding back because we were going through the dark time she should have said so. But this is not the first time things have come back slowly.

T wanted us to start this thing where we would write to her rather than email. She would then respond. We would sometimes wait 4-6 weeks before it was returned. What is the point of that? So we stopped writing. We had actually started on something yesterday but will delete it.

We know she works 2 jobs and has 3 kids. But she took us on, knowing a lot about us. We were referred to her by previous T, partly because she gives us a really good rate. But this is so frustrating.

And yes we responded to that. Wrote "just sent this? Very frustrated. I am angry but I am also sad. I am starting to feel like this isn't working out.