May Trigger-Talk of death
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On new year's eve at 1415 we lost someone very dear to us. In all of the years we have been working in the health care field-I can honestly say that we have never experienced this intense feeling of loss before. It effected us to the degree we were unable to function at work.
I am not accustomed to feeling such strong emotions and no matter how hard I tried to control it-I couldn't. The sadness knock me so hard on my *ss I couldn't get back up and the tears just fell.

It still impacts me today.......I am not sure if any of you remember the post I made regarding us taking a very special lady to Niagara falls as her last wish before she died last summer--this is who we lost after a very brave and courageous fight that she just couldn't win.

It hurts so much Sad
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01-04-2015, 03:27 AM
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RE: May Trigger-Talk of death
so sorry for your loss. it's good to feel a big loss, even if it's uncomfortable. maybe your body is letting you feel because you can handle it.
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01-04-2015, 07:24 AM
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We're sorry, TW.

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01-04-2015, 04:26 PM
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RE: May Trigger-Talk of death
Very sorry T Web. Yes we form a different connection with some clients than others. It is normal. She was fortunate that she had you to have that conversation with. I have found that quite often non-family losses hit harder than FOO> Go easy on yourself. @--------->-
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01-04-2015, 09:34 PM
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Thank you everyone.
Today was her memorial service and they wanted to have it at our work so that is where it was held. It has been a very hard emotional day. Glad to be home.
"You may not remember what someone says or does, but you will never forget how they made you feel" Mac Anderson.
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