frustrated with T

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(04-14-2013, 01:44 PM)nats Wrote: what is the help that you need that she isn't giving?

Well nats it is more about knowing her than her helping me. I don't know her very well yet and going from a T that I was seeing for over 4 years, to this new T who I just started seeing a couple of months ago and it is harder than I thought. I have to keep reminding myself that she doesn't know my history, she doesn't know "us" and we don't know her. Things have fallen apart rather quickly lately. My mother has made contact with us and we haven't spoken to her in well over year, everything that is happening with my son right now was basically dumped in my lap-which is tons of issues, and he triggers me so much right now. So much is going on and she doesn't have the history behind it, and I am trying to tell her but it is so hard to do, and I don't know her. So how is she supposed to help me when she has no idea what I need help with. I did tell her everything that was happening but she just didn't get it--that is how I felt any ways and then I think well how is she supposed to get it! She doesn't know me. And I really need her to get this right now........so she can help me, but I don't know how to communicate that to her. All this stuff is just coming at the wrong time.............I don't know her well enough yet and I don't think I am ready for that big of a risk. Does this make sense?