"The Farm" & Return to "The Farm" ****Medical talk included****

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wow Jamie, that is a lot to have gone through! going to places like that can be very stressful, even without having had your experiences - it's a struggle to visit my hubby's mom who is in a nursing home because it is so depressing

let me say this: you are NOT a bad person because you struggle with going there. you are very normal, IMVHO.

please be kind to yourself. maybe you can call your friend on the phone in lieu of a visit so she knows she is not alone? then you can still make the contact - and be able to visit in person as well, but not feel like you're abandoning her between visits? just a thought