question about T

[angel with wings]

(09-09-2014, 09:28 AM)mosaic Wrote: my thoughts are that he was ethically questionable to become your t if he already knew you as a friend of the family. you need a different t, who doesn't have a conflict of interest, or what they call a "dual relationship".

i dont think you need to apologize. from what you describe you probably won't ever get an apology from him. i'm sorry that you are left in that very awkward situation.

i would look for a different t for sure. for what it's worth.

as friend of family, we know him from our church. he had been an abuse counselor for years, and has counseled me along time. he has stopped being a T some years ago, but said he would do it to help me. I agreed, beings that he counseled me and knew the story already. at the time I agreed, I trusted him. as a T, the whole thing fell apart. now im left frustrated. its why I asked.