On T

[orek]

(08-17-2014, 05:54 PM)The People Wrote: Thanks for the feedback. She did drop off our stuff today. And she is overly swamped with work but was very calm about everything. Yes Grey has a right to her perspective but she doesn't have to be so blunt.

Yo, if Grey wasn't so blunt, would you all have come out and said anything about it? If you're like our upfronters, no effin' way. They'd swallow the doubt and hurt and then that big bad kernel of distrust would grow. I mean, trust is not small sh*te, right? And this is a new T, so you don't know yet if she can be trusted. That's big. And Grey was brave to say something, IMO. But then I get stuck with that job, too. Our upfronters are too chicken sh*te to want to offend ANYone with even a whiff of anger or accountability or whatever. So yeah, it mattered, and I think you should give Grey a break, IMO. I mean she didn't threaten her or get abusive, right? If your T can't handle some honest anger from Grey, then maybe it's good to know now that she ain't up to snuff, whatever snuff is. --davis (w/"orek")