Advise and thoughts please

[Silent Society]

Hi all. I have an issue that I would like some response to if you are able. First a little info about me. I have known I have been multple for about 12 years. Our system has many, well over 100, but not really sure on an exact number as there a parts that also have parts. We are very sporadic on the boards but have been here in the past. It has been a long road for all of us. As the outside one, I have moved from not believing that there were others to accepting and being grateful for their presence as they allowed me to survive.
We have worked with the same T for close to 14 years. The process has been long and painful. Many of the inside ones were very fearful of connection and letting anyone know that they were there. My T has been very supportive and patient.
Our system is functioning better these days, but there is still a lot of work to do to get to a better place. We have been hopeful that work may be able to get done this summer to improve functioning for all.
Not comes to the present issue.
We met with our T this week and a very delicate issue was brought up, new info about one of the bad things that happened. And the T said something VERY stupid. It was along the lines of thinking that may be someone liked what had happened. Everyone is pissed, furious. There are those who are thinking that after all this time, what he really thinks about us was stated.
We are all very upset and not at all sure what to do. It has taken so long for us to get to a place where we are able to talk to the T, but now there are many who do not want to because they are mad at him. Feel like a very important connection has been lost.
Dont know what to do. He has apologized profusely and said that he feels really bad, but not sure how to handle this.
Sorry this is so long. Any thoughts would be appreciated.