What's goin on man?

[dragonfairy]

(08-21-2013, 07:02 PM)Blue Wrote: WTF? We got yet another new insider. His name is CC an he's 8. He says he came thro the door at the back of our room (which isn't always there). AN he says there's a party goin on behind that door!! Why weren't i invited?!! - No but really, what if this party of people all come thro the f***in door? There's 7 of us now. I know that may not seem a lot to many of yous but we're f***in growin fast! Is there any way we can stop this party of people comin thro that door? Like imaginin the door to be gone or summit? Would that work? Any ideas on this would be much appreciated. I don't know how some of yous handle havin so many insiders. I'm screamin out for help wit 7!!!! Sorry if that p***es some people off man.
Blue.

Can understand your frusteration with the newcomers but to be honest just like Reilly said they are not a bad thing. This means that you are at a place in your life that you are starting to feel safe enough that they can start to come forward and be known for the first time. It means you are starting to work through the past and heal and that in itself is a good thing and yet a scary thing in itself. We started out with just about 6 or 7 of us I think in the beginning. We are up to 21 as of now but we always know that we can have more or less at any time. Some could intergrate and go away and some new ones could always come forward. Try to stay open minded that the news ones are now coming forward because they feel safe enough to do so and make them feel like that they are because it will help in the end. We work with one another and pair up with one another to try and help each other. So every one of us has at least one other person we can always turn to if we need to talk or want to. That doesn't mean we are required to but we have that option if we want to. And we can always talk to someone other than that as well but we have at least one person that is "our" go to person so that we don't feel so alone and for us that helps to not feel so alone. Especially when working though hard times if you know what I mean. Hope my rambling helps even if just a little bit as I am sitting here in pain but felt like I really needed to respond to this post as I remember the feeling on this when it first started to happen to us years ago! Keep in touch.

Andi