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(05-20-2013, 04:57 PM)nats Wrote: sometimes it's really hard to know what the right answer is, even when the right answer seems obvious there's sometimes another more correct answer behind it. sometimes we see it, sometimes we miss it. what any of us can do may not be enough but i still think it's worth doing.

Worth doing for its own sake.
And, there was something in me that needed to be fixed (by me) in order to do anything further. The more I take care of myself emotionally, the less likely I am to give up too personal power, or allow it to be taken from me.

A big risk in the kind of help I require is that I could win the battle, and lose myself. I think the resulting wariness is warranted in many life situations. There needs to be a contract, boundaries, for what I've asked for. Because of my low status, I would not be considered entitled to this. And there, we have my answer.
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