Scared, Skeptical, and have no idea

[nats]

we just finished with a very nice T who had no DID experience. it was similar to what you describe. so, those who could have benefited most from talking never chose to b/c they decided early on that she was useless and couldn't help them. so we spent several years showing up and discussing superficial things in the hope that it would do some good. it helped me understand outside people and the world better, but i'm quite well-adjusted to begin with. 4yrs of T never touched the deeper issues. so, what others here are saying about finding a T with experience makes sense to me as well.