Maybe Peak and Two are right

[nats]

you don't have to move tomorrow to start planning for a move 'when the time is better and you can.' we misunderstood you were going on a trip, but it makes sense that you want to do what's best for the kitties. maybe plan for a move within the next 5-10 years? that gives time to plan where, what furniture to bring etc. planning a move also helps with the feeling that where you are is awful - kind of like having a secret escape route.