building support networks

[nats]

hmm, maybe this is about how you're defining support? did your T specifically suggest you develop a DID or mental health support system? for us, support would be much broader - e.g. someone we can count on to take care of the cat if we're gone, someone to have a coffee with when we need a break. people can be very supportive without having to hear the whole saga of abuse history. also, we can trust someone to take good care of the cat without necessarily 'trusting' them with the inner workings of our mind, if that makes sense?