Not Feeling Very Communicative

[MakersDozn]

(09-04-2012, 03:01 PM)nats Wrote: What you're saying resonates a lot with where we are emotionally right now. The concept that "You'll move forward when you're ready" as far as I'm concerned means we never will.

Oh, absolutely. There is no perfect time. We're never going to be totally ready for any step forward.

It's like the concept we had years ago of what a workday would be like for us. We'd get one task from someone to work on, and we'd complete that task. Then, and only then, would we get another task, and we would repeat. And at the end of the day, we would have completed X number of tasks, and leave the office with all loose ends neatly tied up.

Life isn't like this. The reality is that we enter and leave each day with a boatload of works-in-progress, and very few of them get completed when a day is over. Healing is like this, we think. We can't accomplish it instantaneously, perfectly, or neatly, but we still need to move forward.

Thanks for letting us know that you identify with what we wrote.

MDs