Not Feeling Very Communicative

[MakersDozn]

(09-04-2012, 09:11 AM)mosaic Wrote: we know your system is more egalatarian than ours - and maybe that makes dragging others along more problematic.

Yes, that is a factor. Eglalitarianism can be both a blessing and a curse. Because more system members can show leadership, it's easier for those system members to take on too much, and this creates a vicious cycle of "those who can" carrying the load for "those who won't."

Thanks for letting us know that you too had to drag the less ready ones forward. We've always felt that in the healing community, it's considered wrong to push those inside who don't want to be pushed. That we have to be fair to them at all costs.

At all costs? Sometimes the cost of fairness is too high. The ones who are resisting can't see past their own pain, and they prefer the misery they know to the uncertainty of moving forward. They would rather give up, although we as a group choose not to do so.

Anyway, thanks again for your support.

MDs