when to give up on T..?

[mosaic]

that's a question that only yous can answer - i think it's something no one can answer for someone else.

have you decided that it's not worth trying to delve deeper now (as opposed to the early days)?

does t help you with the things you are talking about?

would taking a sabbatical from t be helpful (rather than giving up entirely)?

we hear your frustration... wish we could give you a great succint answer.