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Having Children - My_horse_is_my_therapist - 08-09-2012, 03:54 AM
RE: Having Children - mosaic - 08-09-2012, 03:46 PM
RE: Having Children - Reilly - 08-09-2012, 04:38 PM
RE: Having Children - nats - 08-11-2012, 02:25 AM
RE: Having Children - MakersDozn - 08-11-2012, 09:05 PM
RE: Having Children - Vivey - 10-06-2012, 08:30 PM
Having Children
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Caution  RE: Having Children
Hi Sara.
I think it is wonderful that you are discussing these issues in advance of starting a family.
It really comes down to a personal choice.
I am not multi but rather have a teenage son who is. There are times when I wish I had prior knowledge of familial secrets. I might have opted to never have children. However, I can't imagine my life without my son and daughter. I am glad I had them.
If I could offer advice it would be this. By understanding your own history, it will enable you to see things clearly thereby allowing you to make safe choices for your children. That may mean not allowing certain individuals to interact with your kids. It is a tough journey sometimes but with knowledge you can try and prevent your son or daughter from being victimized.
How does your spouse feel on the subject?
08-09-2012, 04:38 PM
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Messages In This Thread
Having Children - My_horse_is_my_therapist - 08-09-2012, 03:54 AM
RE: Having Children - mosaic - 08-09-2012, 03:46 PM
RE: Having Children - Reilly - 08-09-2012, 04:38 PM
RE: Having Children - nats - 08-11-2012, 02:25 AM
RE: Having Children - MakersDozn - 08-11-2012, 09:05 PM
RE: Having Children - Vivey - 10-06-2012, 08:30 PM

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