Newbie on the block

[MakersDozn]

(07-17-2012, 11:48 AM)Catherine0791 Wrote: Hi MDs,

My BF is the first multi I've met but so far everything's ok. I actually met a couple of them before he knew for certain he was multi. They all seem ok with me so far but it's only been about a week and a half since this all came out.

As for me, I'm a 21 year old Drama student and my BF's a 19 year old Physics student. There's one or two of his others that don't particularly want to come out but that's ok with both me and him. There's another one that just wants me to take care of her when she comes out as she's only 5. It's all just a lot to take in and I'm trying to be as sensitive as I can as I know this has come as a major upheaval to him as well.

We're glad to hear that your BF's insiders generally feel comfortable around you.

As for the five-year-old in your BF's system....we know how it feels to have younger ones wanting to be cared for by someone on the outside.

Our therapist has helped us a great deal in learning how to take care of each other on the inside. Does your BF have a therapist?

MDs