Newbie on the block

[The People]

Fr us it was very scary at first. It has been quite a while now and although things got worse sometimes over all they are so much better.

There is a book out called 'Room'. It is not about DID. However, it is written from a child's perspective. Although it has some darkness about it I found it to be a strong resemblance b/t the book and coming out multiple. discovering what is real and what is not real. for us it was good. not graphic for the most part; just inferred.

If your boyfriend could come and learn to talk themselves that would be helpful for them. we also found that reading autobiographies of multioples more helpful than trying to read text type stuff.

the most helpful tool for us was this place. no question was too stupid and many people will be able to relate to what yyou are going through. the size of the group grows and shrinks with time but we have hung on. There are no rules on how often you can come and it is easy to just drop by and read for a while. both you and your guy.

Take good care. Some of it is actually amusing.