Too much anger

[The People]

I find that survivors go one way or another. Eitherobsessively clean or terribly messy. We were taught some aspects of cleaning from the mother. But I remember other things we did that we learned from tv. Like washing the floors. Swabbing the deck. I don't ever remember people wringing out mops on TV. So we did as they did. The dining room floor was underwater and I was in trouble. Now I use the things advertised on TV. A wet mop.

Your daughter cannot blame you for not knowing how to clean. She is a grown-up who can teach herself. Maybe the 5 of you can take up challenges or something. The granddaughters won't be keen of course so if it is a new process it may take some bribery. However, it is never too late to learn.