Daniel asked a question just to argue with us and tell us off

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those responses sound really good, especially the turning it into a question and listening one. agree it's likely Daniel doesn't fully understand how your system works, since most non-multies struggle with it. it's wonderful that he's trying and you have this kind of relationship with someone. can understand how the question might have triggered people, especially with that kind of memory of your former teacher.

you have really good ideas in place for a next time though. that's how we learn to navigate relationships i guess