How to handle this

[The People]

I belong to a coffee group. I had to miss a few groups and didn't want to go tonight as it is cold out there. I was late in cancelling and once that was done I realized why I didn't want to go.

I met a woman in the group. She drove me home a few times and then she texted one day stating that she was in the area and wanted to drop by. Weird? I say no thank you and a week later. She told me that she forgot blah blah blah and that she does love me. I have never been so uncomfortable.


She was doing all of this Christian talk with someone and yet she was mocking the Filipino staff at the General Hospital (senior hospital). The Alberta Health Care System would not survive without the hard work of these immigrants and I detest prejudice; especially from a pretend Christian.

I don't think she was coming on to me. Regardless she is one mixed up woman. Her son died a few years ago(adult) and while I have sympathy for that I am not comfortable with her. She has no boundaries. But I like the group! She didn't sign up for tonight but I don't want to run into her again. She probably loves everybody but anyone who has been around for a long time knows how I used to freak if the word hug was mentioned.

I cannot say "you bug me". I just feel like going for a shower after talking with her. OMG! I have had times when the boundary snaps popped but....And then I feel guilty because I doubt if she has many friends. Opinions?