Therapist Is Leaving

[just peachy]

hi shadows one more thing I would be very leary if you shadows are feeling pushed too quickly to make a decision too quickly about merging your alters too fast or if you decided to go with co consciousness with your alters ...I am mentioning this cuz I have read many books on did where a therapist push es too fast to merge alters and the patient is not ready to do it yet it ends in disaster for the patient cuz they end up more messed up then when they started cuz of a therapist saying they know what to do ,when in fact there not as knowledgeable as they thought they were ..I in the long run the alters hide inside the person pretending that they are merging and gone for fear that they would be killed once they are merged.. I was on a different group did years ago and this was the case also with some of the did members that tried to soon with therapists too merge only to be disappointed later for the set back ....yet others talked of merging with therapists at a slower pace and were more successful . to each his own just peachy .