New member needs help

[Cammy]

Phoenix: You have a lot on your plate to work through, but I also get a sense that you are a very strong person. This situation is NOT hopeless, but it IS going to take some doing to get through it and arrive at a place where things are more peaceful. Of course, the crux of the matter is your husband's acceptance, which all here have told you will take time. We have also pointed out the importance of getting therapy for yourself, and perhaps even your sons. I am gratified that you understand the importance of receiving help for yourself, and that others here have pointed out that while your husband's alters require acknowledgement, they also require boundaries. Please keep in touch with us and we will gladly continue to support you through this process.

Take special care . . . Igraine