My Husband Has DID too

[Cammy]

(07-09-2016, 03:55 PM)The People Wrote: Thanks Igraine. I agree about giving it some time between new pets. We did get another cat because our doctor thought it was god. Turned out it wasn't for many reasons, one being that Two was just not ready.

I am glad you and your husband found each other and feel that you are able to support each other. I remember a long while back having a discussion here about multies. Some people have gaydar. Many multies have multiedar. We don't always recognize what is drawing us to the other person at first but we do eventually. I met several in the small community I lived in before I came here. We sort of did a circle dance around each other at first but soon figured it out.

Through the years it has never ceased to amaze me that I can 'sense' when someone else is a multiple. I also have a radar for people with BPD for some reason. A lot of times it turns out, it is the way they dress. My husband's wardrobe is strictly black, just like mine. My T told me that a lot of multiples prefer black as their main wardrobe. Mind you, it was more than this that attracted me to Wayne, but in retrospect, there are so many little things that he does that I do too. I'm just glad I found someone that can relate to me and I to him, just like when I am here at MM there are thankfully others who know what the heck I am going through or even talking about.