Can't forgive T

[Tangled Web]

FreyasSpirit-Thanks for your response. We aren't ready to throw in the towel on this T, although we have thought about it-but that would be us just running, not because she did something. In the past when we feel betrayed and trust has been broken or we get hurt by someone, we shut them out of our life-they no longer exist to us. Mind you it has to be pretty huge, and this feels pretty big to us but as nats pointed out (which was extremely helpful-we were triggered) A lot of the stuff that comes up doesn't really belong on her.

The People-She is a very kind, gentle woman. I understand what you are saying about it being just one more thing added to a never ending list of things........this is not like that. We also have had T's like that. She screwed up and she knows she did.........It hurt and we have NEVER done well with handling hurt. It is very hard to process and sort through things. I am starting to be in a better place but the others inside are not, chaos has broke out inside. She knows she has damaged our relationship........I want to say I don't think she did this on purpose but I still have doubts.......Trust is a very sacred thing and so easily broken.