Greetings to All

[The People]

Welcome and congratulations on your engagement. Your partner is right that there will be some tough times but that is true anywhere.

I became unemployed a few years ago when my physical health caused burn out. the emotional stuff got worse and I find it very difficult existing without a routine.

What I find to be most helpful is volunteering. Making a commitment to a place where they might accept some unique days. I once volunteered at a homeless drop in program and did everything from sorting donations to serving lunch. It is the most rewarding thing I have done. And nobody noticed my oddities because they were too busy dealing with life from the outside. I didn't stand out at all! I volunteered with kids. The kids were great, the teachers not so much.

Is there something your wife would like to learn? Is it possible to take a course or something?

Routine is very important for many multiples. Yes I need my couch and PJ days but too many of those and I struggle greatly. All the best. And hope you come back.