Can't forgive T

[The People]

It is different, for me at least, to read something on paper than to hear it from someone we have developed trust issues with. I will not push it further. As well, there are things that we just aren't ready to hear sometimes. Did she say she couldn't do things differently or wouldn't?

Over 30 years ago I worked at a daycare. I was only there for 3 months but recognized from the beginning that one of the girls needed help. I was the one who called SS although she had been there for 2 years. The boss was a twit and at that time anyone could be hired was willing to work for nothing. There were no guidelines. I didn't even receive any when I got my B.Ed. The phone call was gut instinct. A few decades later I was forced into similar situations. Not much had changed.

How was your relationship with this woman before she made that statement? Is this just 1 more thing? Have had Ts where that was the case and I had Ts where it just seemed like a good time to be angry. I am glad you are sorting out your feelings before you walk away rather than after. Trust is so sacred.