Can't forgive T

[Tangled Web]

Recently our T said something to us in a session that in our opinion was very careless and hurtful.

She told us that she probably couldn't have done any better of a job than old social worker we had when we still lived at home with the parents.

She knows the history there-but had forgotten or something.
This old SW didn't take me out of the home, didn't save me, did harm to us. At one point he told the dad that he thought there were only 3 possible outcomes that could come from this-they were that he would kick me out, we would run away or my dad would end up killing us. Of course my dad threw him out of the house. No one was going to tell him how to raise his kids. We were thrown out of the house my the step-mother and moved in with a friend from school and her father. I had told our SW that the friend's father had started to touch us and his advice to us was to try to stay away from him. Later when the SW took a hiatus from being a SW he wanted to date me and have me as his girlfriend. Oh list goes on and on and on.
And she tells us she didn't think she could have done any better than him! My younger sister was taken out of the house and saved. She became crown ward. (of course she had a different SW)

Now she (our T) has apologized for this a couple of times-but we can't let it go. We can't get passed it. Don't know how. Don't know why, just can't.
The thoughts are-she would have just left us there in that house to rot...... to be repeatedly abused because there was nothing she could of done. What are we supposed to do with that?