Reacting to people relying on you

[The People]

You are correct Freyaspirit. Unfortunately this did not unravel as it should have done when I met. Her. The original plan was that I would visit her and help a bit when hubby was working and get paid $100 a week, money much needed. But then he got laid off, took off. She says he is still coming home at end of Feb and I am moving. I shall be slowly cutting ties and make sure I am not always available to her. I did take her out today as I was going out anyway.