death

[MakersDozn]

We're sorry that you're going through this, angel with wings.

A little over a year ago, our T's husband had a serious medical incident, and while the condition is not terminal, he is no longer able to care for himself. As he is in his 80s, it's a very real possibility that our T may soon be in the same situation as your T.

Even during the past year, our T's availability has been seriously impacted by having to care for her husband. She's committed to being available to us, but we still have to keep this new dynamic in mind.

We had been hesitant to discuss our feelings about all of this with our T. But we know that the situation's impact on us is a valid point for discussion, so we let her know our feelings. We're still a client, and therefore she's still obligated to hear the issues and feelings that we bring to her. And it's a lot better than keeping our feelings inside and building resentment.

We hope that you're able to talk with your T about your feelings soon.

MDs