One Insider's Issues Slowing Other Insiders' Healing?

[cew]

That sounds hard. I can relate. A system can have such divergent perspectives and desires and needs. I often feel immobilized by this. This idea of reality can be confusing. Different insiders are interacting with "reality" from places seemingly outside this reality. Sometimes it can feel like walking into a room with a oneway door. You can't get back to the room you came from. You're stuck in this different room and limited by it's own conditions and history.