The People: We love the word "forgettery." And we agree. We wish we could forget some of the things we've had to deal with, although we know that in the long run, we're better off healing from these things.
TW: We (Charity, mainly) have struggled with wishing we could change or wipe out the past. That we could have a "do-over," or rewrite history like in "1984." It's been hard accepting that this won't happen, and it's been hard accepting that we have to heal and move on with our history as it is.
nats: We never expected anyone else to fix things for us, though. In fact, we realized when we were about seven that we could only count on ourselves. It's very discouraging to be that young and have given up hope of support from other people.

But we have a will to make things better for ourselves, so we keep trying.
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