Having difficulty figuring this one out....

[nats]

most of us looking back over our lives will see certain patterns, good and/or bad, cropping up over and over. we think of this as our mind trying to work through certain things but also an unconscious attraction to others who are like us or who we might be able to learn from. unfortunately, if our beginnings were damaging this can mean that until we become more aware of it we can be continually attracted to damaged/damaging people and situations. this is an area where T can be helpful.