Having difficulty figuring this one out....

[Tangled Web]

Very well put cew! That is the level and frame of logic I work on also. I don't identify with the term victim either--I don't hold those feelings about what happened--I agree it is too much to take.

Unity--I am sorry you see yourself as a victim.
I don't believe that if you think there is something wrong with you that that would make you a victim of something. To me that is a very broad generalized statement. There can be lots of things wrong..............doesn't mean you are victim imo.