Quandary (MT...Loss in FOO)

[MakersDozn]

Last night we had our first T session via Skype. It was kind of weird at first. We didn't want her to see a messy room (*eyeroll*). Of course, that kind of thing doesn't matter, but we cleaned up anyway.

Regarding the condolence issue...we talked about what was really important to our system collectively, what our options are, and which option we felt most comfortable with. We settled on the idea of sending a card via snail mail, something simple, like "I'm sorry for your loss." It's about his loss, not ours, because it's not a loss for us.

We weren't sure of his current address, so we emailed the cousin who sends the emails. He just sent us the information.

So, we can get this condolence business out of the way pretty soon. A minor annoyance, kind of like going for a dental checkup.

Laura and others