What Would You Like to Talk About?

[Tangled Web]

I believe that if you are at the point in therapy where you want to confront your abuser then you should be able to. (safely of course). This holiday season has me thinking about family this year. All the things I am sick of tired of and I think she needs to hear those things so I sent her an email. The purpose was to let her know that we were letting her go which I think was good idea only it appears there was more one than one purpose and a lot more was said BUT I refuse to feel bad about it. I had to stand by and listen to ALL her crap--I want it to be my turn now.

Our teens are mostly angry which doesn't bother me so much IF they could only learn to use their verbal filter--that would be greatly appreciated!