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[orek]

Tangled, somehow I either missed this reply or have been away for that long. I'm glad I saw it because I was about to ask you if how it's going and if you found resolution. It sounds as if you did. Good for you for keeping up with the attempts at communication and clarification. That's brave, even if you feel it necessary. I'm often too afraid to ask something I "need" to know. Shame stops me. I need to get over that and risk more in therapy. I don't want it to take years to finally truly feel safe with our new T the way it did with our last one--who was excellent and perfect for us in helping us repair past damage other Ts have done as well as start some deep healing and validation in us.

Is it still going well? I think our new T will work out great. The insiders trust her more quickly than I expected and faster than upfronters can do, and she's great with the kids--well, the two that have come out since we started with her. Still too early to feel a deep, safe bond, but we're hopeful. We'll see.

Ciao for now.