How should you answer dumb questions

[dreamers]

Thanks everyone. I think if it had happened here on mm, my littles would have been more okay with it but it happened on a place that we are new on which is more triggering for us because our foo always made such a huge deal about making a good first impression. Like there were things we were allowed to do but not in front of “ new people “ or not when we were new. The trouble is that it is when you are still figuring out the rules somewhere that mistakes happen. Thanks for the support guys