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RE: So quiet here. - The People - 04-27-2019 Five of Hearts sounds like you have a boss life. KA and Grey of the People (or so they say) RE: So quiet here. - Five of Hearts - 04-30-2019 (04-27-2019, 06:37 AM)The People Wrote: Five of Hearts sounds like you have a boss life. I wish. Weekends are my own and they currently rock but WINTER IS COMING! (literally) Work is mind-numbingly boring, on my lonesome all day making things out of wood and glass, boss never visits. GROUNDHOG DAY! Still in first year so novelty hasn't worn off UNI yet , but only there two days a week. I can tell its going to be a fun few years there. So four out of seven ain't bad I suppose, and 1000% better than last year which was the worst on record. Trying to make this one the best on record whilst getting over last year which i'm still decompressing from. ![]() RE: So quiet here. - nats - 05-01-2019 step by step. if we can focus on making each year a bit better than the last (even the horrible ones) then that's an achievement ![]() RE: So quiet here. - The People - 05-01-2019 Hi 9Bears. We agree that it is hard to develop a social circle, especially since we stopped working. We have actually developed a friendship with another multie who likes a lot of the same things we do. We play crib with her pinking playing cards. Two finds that to be fascinating. RE: So quiet here. - Five of Hearts - 05-02-2019 (05-01-2019, 04:43 AM)nats Wrote: step by step. if we can focus on making each year a bit better than the last (even the horrible ones) then that's an achievement step by step's how iv'e been doing it nats. So far gone from homeless, to find a place to live (thanks sis), to find a job, to start some T, to get life back, to start UNI, to join MM, to... ...Don't know. (Maybe more T, probably not this year, undecided) I don't mind saying some 3D stuff, it's one of those flexible mixed bag enrollments; Fine Art, Object Design & Jewelry Design. T was just cognitive (apparently iv'e been having "unhelpful thoughts"). 5oH RE: So quiet here. - nats - 05-03-2019 "unhelpful thoughts"....hahahahahahhaa, story of my life. apparently, those with trauma backgrounds don't do particularly well with cognitive or narrative therapies (personally, i think some do and some don't). we certainly don't but not tried alternatives like art t or somatic types of t. ah well. step by step still works art and jewellery sounds fun! RE: So quiet here. - Five of Hearts - 05-03-2019 Yeah, it helped a bit. Mainly I can now catch myself anticipating and dwelling on worst case scenarios. I have to stop and tell myself every move I make's not going to end in disaster, so stop thinking like that. stop being paralysed from the neck up and maybe try and trust someone just a little bit. Make it sound easy don't I. Wish it was. Sometimes I can just snap out of it, other times not. I tried to move the therapy towards past stuff but it was outside the referral brief so that T wouldn't go there. I get so angry bout csa i could melt glass. Never told her about multi. (never told anyone except on MM) art and design is a lot of fun. Carrier outcome? supposed to be jewelry artist. Wait and see. RE: So quiet here. - nats - 05-04-2019 we had access to super low-cost Freudian t for years. stuck with it b/c it was so cheap and helped to have someone to talk to about the day to day frustrations, but couldn't get into any deep stuff b/c others didn't feel safe/comfortable to go there so it was just talking about 'how was your day' after awhile, which seemed pointless even for the low price - sort of like paying a friendly person who doesn't really get you. we'd have fun designing jewellery, but completely lack any skills to make what we'd design! RE: So quiet here. - clickclick4 - 05-04-2019 Hello. Up at the top of the page it says I last visited 3-19-17, so it's been over two years since I was last active here, and I never really developed any friendships on this forum because I didn't post much. I won't promise I'll ever make a post again after this one, but I will go ahead and keep the tab open in my browser for a while and see how it goes. It feels like everything is better now. We're still a system, but we are coping much better with things. Life is honestly just nice sometimes. RE: So quiet here. - The People - 05-04-2019 Just take yor time 5 of Hearts. It will all come when you are ready. I am glad that you pop in and throw your nickel into the pond on occasion. This place has been a saving place for me and I have learned so much. RE: So quiet here. - nats - 05-05-2019 hi ClickClick4, great that life is nicer now. that's wonderful to hear. any tips on what helped you make it better? RE: So quiet here. - Five of Hearts - 05-08-2019 (05-04-2019, 04:05 AM)nats Wrote: we had access to super low-cost Freudian t for years. stuck with it b/c it was so cheap and helped to have someone to talk to about the day to day frustrations, but couldn't get into any deep stuff b/c others didn't feel safe/comfortable to go there so it was just talking about 'how was your day' after awhile, which seemed pointless even for the low price - sort of like paying a friendly person who doesn't really get you. Mine was mainly talking about frustrations to, I'm lucky to have access to 12 free sessions a year (i think all Australians do). Need a GP referral but don't get to choose your T or the type of T, all that's done for you based on what you say to the GP. My foo/dad was an industrial designer and trained as a toolmaker so i have a little head start making jewellery. (not to mention about 1/2 a metric ton of precision metalwork equipment) (05-04-2019, 11:06 PM)The People Wrote: Just take yor time 5 of Hearts. It will all come when you are ready. I am glad that you pop in and throw your nickel into the pond on occasion. This place has been a saving place for me and I have learned so much. I'm so not ready |